In working with people and in the communications industry you meet many people with different characters and their drives, Motivations and desires. And I am often confronted with people, which are again confronted with human, which often make the job situation intolerable.

The woman on the team, although the married, colleagues anschmachtet, more than is acceptable in a team, the need to work closely. It stands for minutes in front of him and looking for a topic after another, to continue to talk to him can. The work clothing is cut deeper and more scarce, and private contacts should be promoted. However, these private contacts only lead to a greater degree of frustration, to what she sees? She sees him, they can not have, her husband, they do not want and the woman, it is not. Envy and frustration are common and can only lead to more deeper trenches.

I do this woman suffering, because it does not change anything in their lives. It is her sex is not better but only less, and also the professional achievements of stay, the sows everywhere we envy and jealousy, why it should be better the other.

But I've seen even women and men, which are also grown in such situations about, their lives, their loved ones and themselves have reoriented. In coaching, we often talk about the “New Search”.