This week I was at an information evening at my daughter's school, as they begin in January with a project, that under the title “Self-confidence – Self strengths” was presented. In fact, we got a 1 1/2 Frontalvortrag, which dealt with the issue of child abuse and family violence. Not only that it was produced very oppressive, it was clear, that no question was desired by the parents, but rather the underlying message was conveyed: we find something out, if there is something there.

To my question, where the order come the, came the answer, the teacher, that the children deal openly with strangers, they tell too much of yourself. But where is the limit? I do not want it, that my child is afraid of strangers and your openness buries. Is not that, what we always criticize, that we are Austrians less open, and then shall these things be also trained in the school?!

And of course, we can start with the fear machine and begin to fear the evil man schwazren, only fact is, that attacks on children held a majority in the family and acquaintances. It is an important issue, that belongs sensitized, but please without Stasi methods.

Today I passed my 2nd exam and work-up and learning has become aware, that studying at the University of Vienna not only the study of content but also a study of the life, others and the Zusammespiel of learned knowledge and its applications.

In particular, the Nicomachean Ethics Aristotle is a work, that concerns me personally, However, in a necessary and possible adaptation to the deontology – what should be supposed to have been necessary and. Happiness, Virtues and duties are part of our lives and listen to complicated only in the formulation of. But it's complicated? I try to approach these topics, by learning and listening.

In working with people and in the communications industry you meet many people with different characters and their drives, Motivations and desires. And I am often confronted with people, which are again confronted with human, which often make the job situation intolerable.

The woman on the team, although the married, colleagues anschmachtet, more than is acceptable in a team, the need to work closely. It stands for minutes in front of him and looking for a topic after another, to continue to talk to him can. The work clothing is cut deeper and more scarce, and private contacts should be promoted. However, these private contacts only lead to a greater degree of frustration, to what she sees? She sees him, they can not have, her husband, they do not want and the woman, it is not. Envy and frustration are common and can only lead to more deeper trenches.

I do this woman suffering, because it does not change anything in their lives. It is her sex is not better but only less, and also the professional achievements of stay, the sows everywhere we envy and jealousy, why it should be better the other.

But I've seen even women and men, which are also grown in such situations about, their lives, their loved ones and themselves have reoriented. In coaching, we often talk about the “New Search”.

Women are hard in their opinion, and often much harder to itself. And then there are those women, even the apparently no longer see themselves, what they really look. As haggard and bitter and still talk about it, as it once was, when she was still Size 36 contributed. Should we be honest about these women, and talk about the styling sins. Or better not. If anyone is more important to me, I say this before. As my friend, I liked her old hair color is many times better. She did not look so strict. Or other, that the dress looks Hammer, But now times only “An” mediated. But otherwise it makes us even fun to blaspheme.

Nevertheless, we should sometimes but then say what, as:

Love xxx , now I wear for a long time around with me, but please spite of your thin legs, acting always good in black stockings – despite your age – Please do not wear always so unfavorable short dresses and skirts, you're not 20, do not under 70 kg and also your stomach acts, as if you are just in 5. Month're pregnant. Since the neckline carries now on even more and you'll laughed at as admired.

The Brio railway was something special, Not only, that they consisted largely of parts bequeathed modernized and expanded to include cars and bridges was, it is also a souvenir from the past, from our own childhood. A Wooden Toys, that survived the changing times,,de,and by playing our child and we could tell her,,de,how his own experience of our stories with this path,,de,Unfortunately we have verborgt our Brio railway and did not get back until today,,de,Despite ask me,,de,Even my daughter has asked several times,,de,that she wants our Brio train have their / back,,de,but consoling or,,de,Ignore it all in dealing with unpleasant topics,,de,Only one such parents can not with your sons M and D,,de,tell them stories,,de,as it was for them,,de,to play with this Brio Railway,,de,Since one can only head shaking,,de,What role models these individuals are their children,,de, und mit dem unser Kind spielte und wir ihr erzählen konnten, wie man selbst mit dieser Bahn unsere Geschichten erlebten.

Leider haben wir unsere Brio Eisenbahn verborgt und bis heute nicht wieder bekommen, trotz nachfragen von mir. Auch meine Tochter hat schon mehrfach gebeten, dass sie ihre/unsere Brio Bahn wieder haben will, aber das Vertrösten bzw. Ignorieren ist Programm im Umgang mit unangenehmen Themen. Nur eines können solche Eltern mit Ihren Söhnen M und D nicht, ihnen Geschichten erzählen, wie es für sie war, mit dieser Brio Eisenbahn zu spielen.

I admit it, ich singe im Auto immer lautstark mit und fühle mich unbeobachtet und benutze meine Finger als Trommelwerkzeug und mein Kopf wackelt mehr oder weniger im Takt mit. Und wenn ich dann richtig gut drauf bin, jedoch das Lied leider aus, dann beginne ich zum Sendersuchen und da ist mir nichts heilig, da stolpert man nun mal über Radio Arabella und hört Boris Bukowski mit Fandango oder auf Radio NÖ Luv mit Greates Lover und bei den Toten Hosen – Tagen wie diesen – gibt es sowieso kein Halten mehr. Also, wenn ihr mich seht, bitte nicht zu sehr peinlich berührt sein, sondern lieber selbst ausprobieren, ist sehr befreiend!

Ich habe schon eine Christbaum auf der Terrasse stehen, und da ich mich weigere Plastik – vielleicht auch noch mit Duftbaumgeruch – als Alternative zum Klassiker aufzustellen, habe ich einen Christbaum bei meiner hiesigen Gärtnerei organisiert.
Was sich einfach anhört, stellt mich trotzdem vor die Herausforderung, wann und wie der richtige Zeitpunkt zum Aufstellen ist.
Schreibt das Christkind einen Brief? Bringt es den Baum aufgeputzt oder nicht? Über Nacht, an welchem Tag?
Jetzt liegt er immer noch verschlossen auf der Terrasse und eigentlich sollte er am ersten Adventsonntag stehen. Aber ich denke, es wird alles wie fast immer bei mir sehr spontan entschieden werden.