Monthly Archives: June 2016

#311: Victim

Yesterday I went back two young girls and while they exchanged over trivialities (Mode, scrap, Mode), dropped the sentence: “Are a victim?” and it does not matter, whereupon it had referred, because it was devoid of content, as if it this one sentence so succinctly the other girls Hinsch miss as the spiritual nerve center of the girl. “You looser” is apparently a hilarious Plattitüde, the man can / woman flow into the conversation. Full the victim, are a victim, you sacrifice I keep hearing and seems a cliché in the new (boys) to be language. Well I exclude it, that the, which it relates, Read This, but platitude is inconsequential and meaningless. Bam gedisst. gehts’ shit.

Is too hard? Yes me excites this meaningless “You looser” on! Because it is not devoid of substance in the strict sense. We live in times, where we talk about #aufstehn, about # neinheißtnein, a new awareness of victim protection. I think it sucks, if we trivialize by language. his victim, be affected is. having to How a woman to justify himself for externals, for the perception of the other? No means no! Or not? No means no! It is a sacrifice and since it does not need overtones of contempt or the making Lustig.

If the board of a class “You looser” lubricated, feels someone addressed, It is this ambiguity, makes this trivial throwaway word to verbal injury. Feig and arrogant, derogatory and stupid. And no it's not funny. The friend of my princess took a picture of the board, the spread can thus be carried out quickly and easily and anyone can at any time once everyone's victims. Teasing exchanges between the Kids. Trotteln.

Mag sein, dass ich diese neuen verbalen Gepflogenheiten nicht verstehe. Muss ich auch nicht. Will ich auch nicht. Ich will, dass ein Opfer Handlungsperspektiven bekommt, dass es sich schützen kann, dass wir #aufstehn gegen Gewalt, dass wir #neinheißtnein leben. Weil soviel verstehe ich auch – yolo – you only live once.

#310: well done

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A friend told me recently, that her daughter now the 16 Birthday celebrated with all’ their girlfriends and friends at their home. 20 Piece almost did not fit on the picture – Children today are always greater! 13 Teenagers spent the night at their house. A Great- and feat a great woman. But what has particularly impressed me, was their testimony, as she watched her daughter's Circles, that they will be very proud of the girl, but also to itself. “I have done well.”

How often do we say to ourselves? How often do we say exactly the opposite, and are not satisfied, do not feel we have sufficient. Do this or that poorly made. The immanent bad conscience is deep inside us. And I'm sure, that we take a lot of small and big mistakes, but that's part. In Job, we would never let unsettle us so, as we allow the parents.

Als S. das zu mir sagte, habe ich gleich mal erwidert, dass ich hoffe, dass ich das auch einmal sagen werde können. Dann wenn die Prinzessin 16 is. Aber warum erst dann? Auch wenn wir noch nicht im nächsten Abschnitt der Pubertät angekommen sind, so muss ich sie nur ansehen, ihr zuhören. Ich bin stolz auf sie, aber auch auf mich, weil ich es bisher gut gemacht habe. Nicht perfekt. Aber gut.

Vielleicht sollten wir viel öfter innehalten und uns bewußt machen, was wir gut machen.

#309: How many hours does one day?

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Currently my day could use longer hours, than actually exist, especially since some sleep stint is necessary, in order to function. The real problem is but it, I try everything and to be especially my demands. Get up – his mom: Kind 1 will breakfast, Kind 2 not at all. Kind 1 needs one of his 2 spoon, otherwise the world will. Kind 2 will not be addressed, what with child 1 is impossible. Thus, additional task, next to the correct breakfast items, be promoters of the cold war between the East and West. An impossible task, and I only now understand the actual meaning of a block state. All signatures, together collected water bottles and toys! Kind 2 leaves still grumpy in mostly inept footwear to weather the apartment (although I felt as weather information 100 asked times, like the weather now actually is). Kind 1 is the Tasmanian Devil to turtle and deported any activity. With the result, that we have almost daily to late not at home. Somewhere in between pressed, I think about, how my day is today, pending which dates, what I need now. Pack laptop in the backpack, collect scattered papers a.

At school there are then sometimes a few exchange of words and questions, which now substantially less, where our problem case will not come to school. Rolle Mama, Schulbegleiter und Elternvertreter kann ich dann zumindest einmal auf die Seite schieben.

Termine, Diskussionen, Treffen, Projekte … neue Geschäftsmodelle, social Business und und und … und meine wissenschaftlichen Arbeiten, derer ich noch 3 bis Ende Juni zu erarbeiten habe, füllen dann den restlichen Tag, gespickt mit Trainings – wobei das Mittwochs Training von 2 Stunden super ist, da sitze ich in der Sonne am Laptop und schreibe – Telefonanrufen, Mama sein oder Mama sein am Telefon. Und Versorger darf ich natürlich nicht vergessen. 4 mal die Woche bekomme ich den Anruf von Kind 2, wo sie mich fragt, was es zum Essen gäbe. Meistens etwas, aber oft nicht das, was Kind 2 nun möchte, neben Nudeln, Reis und Chinesen! Am Abend isst mich dann Kind 1 arm und es wird abgesucht, was sich noch so im Kühlschrank findet (particularly, wo ich immer die Kekse und Gummisachen verbiete!).

Irgendwann, neben Diskussionen rund um Lernen, Freunde besuchen, spielen und fernsehen, befinden sich dann Kind 1 und Kind 2 im Bett und dann sind die Highlights meine paar WhatsApp Nachrichten mit Leidgenossinnen, der Fernseher, der nebenbei läuft, während ich am Laptop sitze und arbeite. Aber auch wenn ich jetzt hier “jammere”, ich gehe ja diesen Weg durchaus bewußt, weil ich etwas für mich bewegen will. Die Herausforderung liegt ja darin, dass ich weiterhin mit vollem Einsatz Mama sein will und auch wenn ich oft das Gefühl habe, mich wie ein Jongleur mit sehr vielen Bällen zu bewegen, so will ich, dass es funktioniert. Ich will nun einmal so arbeiten, wie ich es eben zur Zeit tue, mit einer Vielzahl und Verschiedenheit an Projekten, die ich mir vor Jahren nicht hätte so vorstellen können. Und auch, wenn ich viele leere und unbezahlte Kilometer zurücklege, so ist es mein Weg. Mein Weg als Mama, consultant, author, friend, sister …

#308: my heroine #Fuckcancer

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#Fuckcancer

I'd prefer it out screaming yes and can if possible each letter individually burn ritual, but unfortunately life does now not so. Life also does not seek not the cancer and my girlfriend. Although we before 2 talked about years, that their chances 1 to 3 Years of life could be limited, – #fuckdiestatistik – so we ignored it, not believe it. It is her irrepressible will to live, makes them so strong and incredibly robust, even if the lungs are riddled with metastases, the tumor occupied her liver … #fuckcancer

Yesterday she told me in the hospital, that the grave still have to wait for them, and when they cross places. We are sending ice sat on the bed and have the severe storms seen walking on the Kahlenberg. And today it is operated, or at least that is the plan, because it wants options, not want to give a little. It is this will, the impressed me so deeply, wanting even stick around. Weak it is only, when they look at the photos of her two children. And happy, because they can be with them every minute and for that she is fighting. #fuckcancer So in the sense …

#307: excited

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I am a little excited, since I started really serious and earnest this week my master project. Where I've turned more laps around my work, to get a feel, whether the fit for me so, whether it can be useful and what I expect of them, I'm up late at night sitting on my research paper and worked on it. And a second blog went online, in English, which deals with the scientific development of my theme.

What I want to write? About Ethical Codes in blogging. Can the Internet really all? Can we commit an ethical code, whether that be really up to you? I want to occupy myself here with David Enoch approach, the ethical issues and rules (very briefly) would like to see evaluated and determined by experts.

Who cares: manuelabiegenzahn.blogspot.co.at

And, I'm excited, a lot.