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#232: RIP UDO

A Great and I mean really big is gone. Udo Jürgens and while I'm still on the way home, I get both on Facebook, WhatsApp and also call the news, that Udo died and what was lucky I still be at his last concert. Parallel I went to youtube this song “1000 Annual One Day”, as this is my favorite song by Udo Jürgens and touched me to the deepest of my ego.

I have seen his last concert, been there, I felt, that Jürgens would prefer to tip over on stage or shortly thereafter. He gave everything, matter, whether a slip of the tongue was there or not. With 80 Years, that is probably allowed. Also, that after his mandatory bathrobe (I do not need the yes, but probably would the rest of the media landscape cry) his “Senior Citizens”jeans attracted and still prances around the stage, that's all with 80 Allowed years. Because Udo Jürgens is easy and pulled both young and old alike.

Jung therefore, because I remember, my princess with delicate 3 Years naked her keyboard in the atrium to the slide pulled, for there “But please with cream” to sing. Old therefore, because my granny with 66 (shortly before the cancer it with 67 defeated) still thought, now begins her life but only to. Thanks for linking music, it makes us all across companies possible in the disco with Greek wine swaying together to sing. Who showed us, that we are all somewhere in a “honorable House” live and live. And the dream of New York, Hawaii and San Francisco should be to live if only on TV via universe and Co.

For me, Udo Jürgens was not only childhood memory and I want to say thank you and now my “not available” Stamping wary of humility. THANK YOU!

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The G. does not give up and I admire. Not only, to face the shit, Fuxxing battling cancer, she is fighting to bone, the liver and lung, and not tolerated, that their two teenage children should soon be without a mother.

Nothing in life is easy, and certainly not children, coming straight from high school, let puberty felt hoch2 experience. But the G. makes it super and wants for their children above all else: a daily, the site has for the woe-Wechens of growing up.

The aging of it unfortunately brings with it, that we place ourselves on being in love, Separations, In love and separations on topics we talk Diseases. And while for some “Little things” are, it is for other cancers.

Deleuze speaks of, that it is in the arts matter, let them be sustainable, to be defined as art, by being materialized and creates sensation blocks. "What has retained, receives, the object or work of art, is a sensation block, that is, a compound, a composition of percepts and affects. "(What is Philosophy / Deleuze) A task, which will only become aware of, when we are confronted with the finiteness of life. But the G. makes it all right, it is that, which it passes on to their children.

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That F. Franz's real name, is a real original. Not only, that he more than 70 is, so he has been fighting for years with the adversity of illness. His heart no longer has long played with, Hemophiliac, he is also, and actually Diabetics, only the sugar disease is very kind to him makes him the time at rest. His foot is to go on a rail and really, is long gone really. Actually, he may have to undergo surgery, but none of the doctors dares the more, because its survival well below 25 % would.

And yet he has cooked until recently regularly for friends. And if he has cooked, then you could smell the whole staircase in the staircase 1. Smoking is also important for him, because it tastes him. And instead of wine or beer there is just now and then a schnapps. On sweetheart he gets upset, that his wife is too much Strawanzen. And when he starts talking, Merkt man dann, that he does so with a passionate Grantlerei, the one Qualtinger really deserves. F. yes also comes originally from the 10. Bat and was a crane operator, has been passionately in the pub, with woe someone says something bad about his wife.

Since the spring he also drinks regularly received my green smoothies, because it was not him with his blood values as well. And when it hurts nothing then yes it can perhaps use what. This feels a not really a man. Imagine, keeping the Qualtinger as a green juice out, but the F. drink's me and it would be, if he keppelt and grumbles. Ein Original, a very special!

#221: Friends you can choose

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And family does not. I have taken it well with both. On the weekend we celebrated the 5th birthday of Pam-Pam. And with Picnic Blanket, Prosecco, Schnitzerln, Himbeersaft, Roast beef meat and camisole etc.. on the Jesuits in the Prater. There were 11 Children, more parents and adults and even 2 young adults, which accepted the invitation. The sun was shining and the kids had played in the finest baby rib Unterleiberl manner Soccer. I can not be more grateful for this wonderful day, because not only, that we had marvelous weather, we have eaten and drunk almost all. A 10 Clock as we walked out our front door, I felt just like my balkanesischen roots from each crate and cooler (3 Boxes, 2 Coolers) out cheered. Locally, we has the best table and spread us out in accordance.

We played football. Men were injured (as it should be with the appropriate forward role and Primal Scream). Children fought and got along. Parents slept, chatted and enjoyed the sun.

I am grateful for these friends, whose children are the friends of my two children (big and small!). You've made this day a wonderful experience.

#188: Aggression and children

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How should we react, when the neighbor's child with abusive language and insults throws around, every worker, Mist cooler and Brant Weiner blush leaves. to speak with the child directly Trying, does not change anything, because no insight exists. Jeder Satz wird mit einem “Aber” started,,nl,Debt is almost the addressee or,,de,because this or that or just,,de,And even the parents do not seem to oppose the latent aggressive behavior,,de,since the abuse take place before parents without consequences,,de,with nearly,,de,Years should have to take place a social comparison,,de,In developmental psychology, this starts with the primary school age,,de,But the self-assessment is realistic,,de,However, as children and teenagers getting feedback,,de,affected,,de,as successes and failures are internalized,,de,The problem is,,de,that aggressive behaviors,,de,once they are available,,de,are stable and difficult to change,,de,Reasons are often in the home,,de,it is characterized by lack of and little positive behavior the children to,,de,Factors such as heat,,de. Schuld ist quasi der oder die Angesprochene, weil dies oder jenes oder einfach so. Und selbst die Eltern scheinen nichts dem latent aggressiven Verhalten entgegenzusetzen, da die Beschimpfungen auch vor den Eltern ohne Konsequenzen stattfinden.

Mit knapp 10 Jahren sollte schon ein sozialer Vergleich stattfinden können. In der Entwicklungspsychologie beginnt dies mit dem Grundschulalter. Aber auch die Selbsteinschätzung wird realistischer. Wie jedoch Kinder und Jugendliche Rückmeldungen bekommen, beeinflusst, wie Erfolge und Misserfolge verinnerlicht werden.
Das Problem ist, dass aggressive Verhaltensformen, wenn sie einmal vorhanden sind, stabil sind und schwer veränderbar.

Gründe liegen oftmals im Elternhaus, es ist gekennzeichnet durch fehlendes und wenig positives Verhalten den Kindern gegenüber (Faktoren wie Wärme, sensitivity,,de,acceptance,,de,empathy,,de,But also support environmental factors and promote aggressive behavior,,de,These include media behavior,,de,School and friends,,de,And finally, the dispositions in children must not be ignored,,de,difficult character,,de,high activation,,de,Even my knowledge about does not help in the appropriate situation,,de,I try with my daughter to speak and tell her about such situations,,de,that she is not to blame,,de,And appropriately counteract,,de,but some philosophers see it as just the opportunity to expand our own horizons,,de,They are,,de,disappoint us,,de,because we often know too little,,de, Akzeptanz, Einfühlungsvermögen, …). Aber auch Umweltfaktoren unterstützen und fördern aggressives Verhalten. Dazu zählen Medienverhalten, Schule und Freundeskreis. Und zu guter letzt dürfen die Dispositionen in den Kindern nicht außer Acht gelassen werden, schwieriger Charakter, hohe Aktivierung.

Selbst mein Wissen darüber hilft nicht in der entsprechenden Situation. Ich versuche mit meiner Tochter über solche Situationen zu sprechen und ihr zu erklären, dass sie keine Schuld trägt. Und auch entsprechend gegenzusteuern.

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My heroes of today does not describe a person, but several mothers. Mothers, organize the diaper events and try for yourself and your children to be role models, to show, as what is right and wrong. Allowed to make mistakes and also stand by you, because who's been a perfect mother.

And und, times then we bribe the kids with gummy bears, Bubbles or ice cream! But if worst comes to worst Planet Mama, then pack them all to busy! Take child from kindergarten – no issue, pour a glass of Malibu for nerve strengthening – a lightness, Granny Clamp for designing a perfect motto afternoon – Freestyle with 10 Points … Great Women, hopefully hear that too often!

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2011 A lot has changed. But not just for me and not on the way, as we wish it were so. My hero has been thrown through a car accident into a new life.

Coma, ICUs, Operations from head to toe … Intensive care and helicopter transport from Krems to AKH, where at the same time he was close to George Michael to get saved the lives.

There are memories, that will accompany us throughout our lives and make us realize, what it means to start from the beginning again. Wolfgang himself says of himself, that today Peppi 3.1 sitting here and much opportunity as, questioned and would like to do differently. Peppi 1.0 is history, sometimes he does not even like, but it is his past and from which he draws his strength to reinvent itself, to re-experience.

As of this week he is traveling without crutches and, although it is of course slower and different, than any other, normal “poorly” treated by his fellow. A good feeling?!? I do not know, but I see in him so much life and joy to meet life. So I'm looking forward to further releases by Peppi. Welcome back.

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For me, there are so many heroes and it is not always easy to find the right words,,de,why they are there,,de,Since there are just so many facets and perspectives,,de,to look at the people,,de,Mischa is a man,,de,has so much to offer,,de,as a mother for her,,de,sons,,de,as a friend or as a living man for her husband,,de,if it is also difficult,,de,for us and Gluten-,,de,lactose,,en,and what's cooking always -free,,de,The freshly pressed apple juice drags,,de,several liters,,de,just to chat with me,,de,And can listen to one and clearly understands,,de,if your child is inherent and must be intrinsically,,de,but their Liebesgschichte is also the,,de,the heroine is worthy,,de,by storm,,de,in love,,de,Engaged and married,,de,And what I them both anyway wishes,,de, warum sie es sind. Da es einfach so viele Facetten und Blickwinkel gibt, die Menschen zu betrachten. Mischa ist so ein Mensch, die so viel zu bieten hat, als Mutter für ihre 2 Söhne, als Freundin oder als Lebensmensch für ihren Mann. The, wenn es auch schwierig ist, für uns und sich Gluten-, lactose- und was auch immer -frei kocht. Die frischgepressten Apfelsaft schleppt (mehrere Liter) nur um mit mir zu plaudern. Und einem zuhören kann und genau versteht, wenn das eigene Kind eigen ist und eigen sein darf.
Ihre Liebesgschichte ist aber auch die, die einer Heldin würdig ist, im Sturm erobert, verliebt, verlobt und verheiratet! Und was ich den Beiden sowieso Wünsche: … and they lived happily ever after,,de,long,,de,how fragile life is and what acts of other persons can drag on impact,,de,And still trying S,,de,to begin their lives anew every day,,de,despite the fact that a year ago took a turn her life before her eyes,,de,just because a man could not carry out its responsibility for his life,,de,Nagging questions of why,,de,nagging thoughts of guilt,,de,all shapes and lets you forget his own life,,de,And yet she does not give up,,de,attempts to build up a constant,,de,durchzustarten tried,,de,I personally find but especially one so admirable,,de,after giving so much love and give and other very generous towards still so,,de (langen) …

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It is not so easy, sometimes making the right words, to what has seen and lived through my current heroine in the past year, shows me, wie zerbrechlich das Leben ist und was Handlungen weiterer Personen für Auswirkungen ziehen können. Und trotzdem versucht S. ihr Leben täglich neu zu beginnen, und das obwohl vor einem Jahr ihr Leben vor ihren Augen eine Wende nahm, nur weil ein Mann seine Verantwortung für sein Leben nicht wahrnehmen konnte. Quälende Fragen nach dem Warum, quälende Gedanken nach der Schuld – all das prägt und lässt einem sein eigenes Leben vergessen.
Und trotzdem gibt sie nicht auf, versucht eine Konstante sich aufzubauen, versucht durchzustarten. Ich persönlich finde aber vor allem eines so bewundernswert, sie hat so viel Liebe zu geben und zu schenken und ist anderen gegenüber immer noch sehr freizügig damit.
Even if they do not know today,,de,whereas what and who will lead them once,,de,it is not to break an art in the events,,de,since it bears no responsibility for what had happened,,de,that it was irresponsible of him and he might never earn their sympathy their understanding,,de,I am looking forward to the day,,de,and coming,,de,where she finds love,,de,it deserves,,de,lives life,,de,that she wants,,de,may sound like a contradiction to,,de,but is not,,de,because it is much and can,,de,Only the faith halt,,de,it lacks sometimes,,de,She has a strong will,,de,which is admirable,,de,it does not go the easy way,,de,but the for her and her son Right,,de,It is anyway my Kinderflüsterin,,de,And the first traveling companion of parenting,,de, wohin was und wer sie einmal führen wird, so ist es eine Kunst an dem Geschehen nicht zu zerbrechen. Particularly, da sie keine Schuld an dem Geschehenen trägt, dass es von ihm verantwortungslos war und er ihr Mitgefühl vielleicht verdient aber niemals ihr Verständnis.
Ich freue mich auf den Tag – und der kommt – wo sie die Liebe findet, die sie verdient, das Leben lebt, dass sie sich wünscht.

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My next heroine and there are still so many of those, alone yesterday at the table are more 6 sat. One of them is Jasmine. So many self-doubt, Fears and insecurities make starch, Warmth and fighting spirit. Hört sich vielleicht wie ein Widerspruch an, ist aber keiner, weil sie vieles ist und kann. Nur der Glauben halt, der fehlt ihr manchmal.

Sie hat eine Willensstärke, die bewundernswert ist, sie geht nicht den einfachen Weg, sondern den für sie und ihren Sohn Richtigen. Sie ist sowieso meine Kinderflüsterin. Und erste Wegbegleiterin des Elternseins, unsere Kinder sind nämlich 3 Monate auseinander und es ist faszinierend zu sehen, that even if the two longer not see,,de,Is it like this,,de,as if they had parted only yesterday,,de,I'm glad definitely,,de,find us,,de,And because it is so,,de,how she is,,de, ist es so, als wären sie erst gestern auseinander gegangen.

Ich bin auf jeden Fall froh, that we 2 uns gefunden haben!

Und weil sie so ist, wie sie ist,