I remember, I had a course in developmental psychology about love and relationship, while I remained mainly in memory, that when you are in a relationship begins to create a balance, that these relationships are not of long duration are, because there are times, where one inevitably slips into negative or positive, because circumstances do not run in a straight line. It seemed to me then as now logically, a relationship and partnership, the continuously calculated, when I, 've done for someone how and where, is exhausting and especially not appreciative.

In my own little universe I would also work to friends, often friends and family on the principle “provide” and I get back without immediate settle and offsetting more than enough. It has become my only aware of this issue again, as a mom of a friend of my son said, that they can not return the favor as quickly with a return visit, and I just thought: “Is it the same!” Or not? Also a friend of mine, whose daughter goes with my in ballet, said, now you come back to me, because we were so often lately with you anyway … I know, no one wants to remain someone owe, take advantage of someone, only take, … But I'm not assuming, because I think, that we no longer have it is necessary, exploit someone, because we are glad, that we have friends and people around us, who are there, if it is necessary to provide.

And of course I was already exploited, but these people are just that entertaining companion, because they remove themselves from friendships and their possibilities.

In the last 2 Days we have – the Mädlsrunde and I – perceived 100 Said time, that we should never go bad, than now. It must be said, that we were in a house in Lake 7t, only women, with everyday life at home for it with Prosecco and pastries Sweden bombs in hand. The house is located in Lake in the Hungarian part of Lake Neusiedl is idyllic, only the rooms in the house are very noisy, which was less a problem for us, as for the other guests, who have heard of us in the house. For this, we are also just before half 6 been woken up by the sun, and an indefinable vocal (we take the so with humor).

Great trip this was not now, because it is a nice location, or the food has charmed us, but because a diverse group of women together and the other can be uncomplicated and unpretentious, no expectations somewhat complicated and we like to laugh a lot together, and above all listen to each other.

Today was a great day, for me today launched the Christmas season. Adventkranzbinden, first Christmas, chaotic bustle of the household bending tooth, and laugh without end with family and friends.
I give also like to, I love the Christmas season. And of course, can and must question the commercialization,,de,and watch,,de,that any spending spree,,de,Chewing gum plastic Christmas market and the chemically-refined punch succumbs,,de,But so wrong, we do not do that the last few years,,de,Focus on friends,,de,Family time,,de,to think,,de,which makes the other happy,,de,come an inward to rest,,de,The counter-argument,,de,that we should behave ourselves according to the year,,de,is correct and I think,,de,I try so to live,,de,However, at this time I do it simply more aware,,de,It is also about teaching values ​​and attitudes,,de,of possibilities and wishes,,de,And yes it makes me happy,,de,to hear from the radio Wham,,de,Then it means,,de,turn up and sing along with all the fervor and all falsehood loud,,de, und aufpassen, dass man keinem Kaufrausch, Kaugummi-Plastik-Weihnachtsmarkt und dem chemisch-raffinierten Punsch erliegt, aber so falsch machen wir das die letzten Jahre nicht.

Konzentration auf Freunde, Zeit mit der Familie, zu überlegen, was den anderen glücklich macht, ein innerliches zur Ruhe kommen. Das Gegenargument, dass wir doch das ganze Jahr uns entsprechend verhalten sollten, ist richtig und ich denke, dass ich es so versuche zu leben, jedoch in dieser Zeit mache ich es einfach noch bewusster. Es geht auch um Vermittlung von Werten und Einstellungen, von Möglichkeiten und Wünschen.

Und ja es macht mich glücklich, dass erste Mal “Last Christmas” von Wham im Radio zu hören. Dann heißt es, laut aufdrehen und mitsingen mit aller Inbrunst und aller Falschheit.

Beautiful Christmas time,de!

I grew up with Flashdance, Dirty Dancing und Footloose. Now even be enough, when gestated on Facebook: “My Baby belongs to me.” and already a tailspin into countless comments, ranging from “Ja den Film sehe ich auch gerade im Fernsehen …” bis hin zu Songtexten und Gegenzitaten. Tanzen als Ausdruck von Gefühlen und einer Möglichkeit des Loslassens. Nicht einmal habe ich meinem Zimmer vorgetanzt, wie Jennifer Beals, oder habe mit meiner Freundin die Szene von Johnny und Baby nachgespielt, where they have to laugh again,,de,because he puts his arm from her over his head,,de,Has brought me the whole lot,,de,I can still dance in the men's position today,,de,my friend appreciate it,,de,I love to dance and so many of my email calls begin with Dancing Queen to our girls round,,de,when it is time once again,,de,let go and merrily,,de,than that the children have to take the side of one's parents,,de,and completely unreflective an often unreasonable manner,,de,What is inappropriate,,de,If a girl runs to his mother and explained completely distraught,,de,that the T would kill her,,de,because she has a father,,de,the wicked,,de,A father,,de,might actually be killed by Ts father,,de, weil er den Arm von ihr über seinen Kopf legt. Gebracht hat mir das ganze sehr viel, ich kann heute noch immer auf der Männerposition tanzen – meine Freundin wissen das zu schätzen ;).

Ich liebe es zu tanzen und so beginnen viele meiner Email-Aufrufe mit Dancing Queen an unsere Mädelsrunde, wenn es wieder einmal an der Zeit ist, loszulassen und loszutanzen.

I have a sore and did not come from sports, the only movement, which my stomach muscle the last 2 Days has operated intensively, was the laughter. The special thing, that it was so intense, I have herumgekuggelt me ​​grounded,,de,I had to hold my stomach and even or tears flowed I snap threw me against air backwards and did not know,,de,how I can stop,,de,And that was just phenomenal,,de,because I have spent time with me dearest and best friends,,de,because it is precisely just happened,,de,where the living conditions do not make it easy,,de,to believe in the good,,de,of Law and Justice,,de,to have friends,,de,that not only support,,de,advise and are there,,de,but above all with you laughing about nothing,,de,importances,,de,life and about ourselves,,de,is so phenomenal as this soreness,,de,was nevertheless very ... I'm still looking for the right word,,de, mir meinen Bauch halten musste und sogar die Tränen geflossen sind oder ich vor Luft schnappend mich rücklings geschmissen habe und nicht mehr wusste, wie ich aufhören kann. Und das war einfach phänomenal, Not only, weil ich Zeit mit mir liebsten und besten FreundInnen verbracht habe, but, weil es eben gerade eben passiert ist, wo die Lebensumstände es nicht einfach machen, an das Gute zu glauben, an Recht und Gerechtigkeit. Freunde zu haben, die nicht nur unterstützen, beraten und da sind, sondern vor allem um mit Ihnen zu lachen über Nichtigkeiten, Wichtigkeiten, das Leben und über uns selbst, ist so phänomenal wie dieser Muskelkater.