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#29: Weihnachtswichteln

I write on all sorts of little notes abbreviation for gifts, so no one guesses, what's this year for Christmas. These shortcuts can be found on invoices, on the PC or on the phone. This year I've done something anyway,,de,I in all,,de,the years have been perhaps sought,,de,but never managed,,de,the gifts they packed,,de,beschleift and even labeled,,de,Labeled not only with small name cards,,de,but also with Christmas cards and personal messages,,de,And that's exactly what it is all in the Christmas message,,de,to show your enemy,,de,you to listen and make yourself thoughts,,de,This attitude I try my children to pass,,de,that it is not about,,de,what is in the package inside,,de,but why not give a gift and what should be taught so,,de,And thus my heroes are my positive Seelenfütterer,,de,as well as my family and friends,,de,our children are in fact,,de,Months apart and it is fascinating to see,,de, was ich in all’ den Jahren zuvor vielleicht angestrebt habe, aber nie geschafft habe, die Geschenke sie verpackt, beschleift und sogar beschriftet. Beschriftet nicht nur mit kleinen Namenskärtchen, sondern auch mit Weihnachtskarten und persönlichen Botschaften. Und genau darum geht es doch bei der Weihnachtsbotschaft, um deinem Gegenüber zu zeigen, dass du zuhörst und dir Gedanken machst.

Diese Einstellung versuche ich auch meinen Kindern weiterzugeben, dass es nicht darum geht, was in dem Päckchen drinnen ist, sondern warum man ein Geschenke gibt und was damit vermittelt werden soll.

#28: is good – is good

Es tut gut, something to think good and also write down. Actually, I should know that, too, because it was one of the lessons in coaching, we learned at the beginning. But it is easier to give in to your negative feelings.

Und somit sind meine Helden auch meine positiven Seelenfütterer, wie auch meine Familie und Freunde.

Cycle: Heroes of today

My next heroine and there are still so many of those, alone yesterday at the table are more 6 sat. One of them is Jasmine. So many self-doubt, Fears and insecurities make starch, Warmth and fighting spirit. Hört sich vielleicht wie ein Widerspruch an, ist aber keiner, weil sie vieles ist und kann. Nur der Glauben halt, der fehlt ihr manchmal.

Sie hat eine Willensstärke, die bewundernswert ist, sie geht nicht den einfachen Weg, sondern den für sie und ihren Sohn Richtigen. Sie ist sowieso meine Kinderflüsterin. Und erste Wegbegleiterin des Elternseins, unsere Kinder sind nämlich 3 Monate auseinander und es ist faszinierend zu sehen, that even if the two longer not see,,de,Is it like this,,de,as if they had parted only yesterday,,de,I'm glad definitely,,de,find us,,de,And because it is so,,de,how she is,,de, ist es so, als wären sie erst gestern auseinander gegangen.

Ich bin auf jeden Fall froh, that we 2 uns gefunden haben!

Und weil sie so ist, wie sie ist,

Cycle: Heroes of today

Ich habe eine Lisa 🙂 und ich bin glücklich diese/meine Lisa zu haben und ich wünsche mir, that each (ok not everyone deserves it) Additional meal hat. Sometimes it is also an Elizabeth, then it may be something more serious, but mostly it's just Lisa. What sets them apart so? She is there for me, listen to me and gives advice, which sometimes hurt but mostly she finds the right words, next time I'm sad, angry, am angry and happy.

But with her, I can not just talk – often over an hour on the phone, FaceTime or WhatsApp all day – but we are celebrating, laugh, fool around or sit next to each other and watch TV. And what I think anyway on the grandest, is their transformation from Tascherlhalter to active dancers. All the same, Disco Fever whether or not Playboy Club dance floor is safe from it.

Ohn you my life would be only half as exciting, half filled and touches. I love you.

Cycle: Heroes of today

I want to start a series, has dealt with people around me and friends. Background is, that we forget too often, so much for granted and see us rather to deal with it, what some people are and do not, than vice versa to see it and love- throw and respectful look at these people.

I will start with Heidi. The appearance, they might unconsciously mediated, deceptive, the calm and reason can be torn by very short direct observations and comments. My greatest admiration she has but above all, how she and her husband, of course, have dealt with the challenge of preterm infants. I remember, as we have received info, that had used the pains in her holiday in South Tyrol at once and there was no other option, than to have her baby. 4 1/2 Months early, the fear and hope and, giving up and fighting must have been drastic and unimaginable for me. Of course, what you have as a mother and father have for alternatives, many probably, as well as any.

For me, Heidi is a mother, the so wonderfully normal lives and teaches her little miracle, and also happen to be realized their dreams and writes. She has never given up in favor of her child. For me, Heidi is a heroine and I think for her family anyway.

#27: Limits

Last we have very intense about children, Discussed young people and their leap to adulthood. Also due to the project, that is offered in our daughter's school and where the subject of self-consciousness and abuse (Violence and sexual assault) should be made aware.

We all agreed, that children and young people must be protected. And not only, if we just talk about children, but also young adults, do not act like children in their physical development, are far away in her soul from adulthood.

But for some men, this dissonance of body, Mind and soul or not visible. do not want to admit it. Thus, in the daughter of a friend, both Babysitting, as well Catsitter was and because of the looks of the Father, as well as the comments reluctant was doing her job and also the former friend of hers came by more often, to pick them up. And yes it is and was a gorgeous girl, is sincerely in their character and friendly, and the more, that they were entrusted, he had a young adult must keep their distance.

I have a daughter and the thought, so that someone lewd thoughts about it, makes me angry. It is even more important to strengthen our children and to believe them especially ALWAYS.

# 25: Privacy Policy

A company and its senior staff, as CEO should not read the e-mail traffic of their employees and not let their email account open.

I have been approached by a client that is on this fact. It has the feeling, that their manager is reading. It's just a vague feeling, but sometimes hints are there in his statements to her life, where they do, that she has not told in this direction. She now has the opportunity to speak directly to their superiors on it or find out about the IT, whether their suspicion is confirmed. For even the IT managers, if he knows about it, is punishable by law with this action.

I know of cases, where e-mails employees were tapping and also e-mail accounts of employees, the sick or. were on maternity leave were easily opened. All illegal! It says nothing about an employee from, if he flirts with another employee, or sexual desires which he / she entertains or what practices would be tried. All illegal! And if people bad at talking about their superiors and colleagues, that is one of them and has proven cleansing power.

The work and performance must take priority and if that does not fit, then it is necessary to change something. Because everything else is illegal.

#24: Play with each other

We adults have forgotten how to play with each other. The children we explain, that you should take into consideration, do not make the toys of other broken, no one hurt, … And we ignore the Job – the play of adults – often these simple rules. As long as everything goes well, find it hard to, these little tips, Gut feeling, that an advance warning or even the exaggerated be friendly.

But I also know business partner, Shareholders and executives, trying their enjoyment of the game with each other and with each other to promote and share. But these are often the people, which have a fixed personality, to an estimated friends call their own and have values ​​and principles. As the, the ideas and creativity her husband, Enthusiastic partners and customers. Is engaged himself and not tired, to question itself. For advice, how to best deal with appreciative with an employee.

And then there are also those, call the other a dreamer and a drunkard, which you do not want to have part in the company, but his ideas and his contacts with the UN already. Or the, which in turn try to play off through a third party, because management is unable, Money wasted and if you wanted to and could, they just wanted to get out have. But the best part, that these people call themselves friends and put together this afternoon conspiratorial up, to the evening to think back to, where the other has violated the rules of the game.

#23: and a butt 10 Kirtag

As I sit at Porgy and hear Ernst Molden and Willi Resitarits and answer between the SMS of P, asks the, Schindler if I'm on the road again. Well I'm telling you honestly, Willi is not my case, from a purely musical, the lyrics and compositions are great, but my direct audience is me personally too strenuous, because I can honestly say much shit about nothing, but that is as meaningless and stupid …

But that's also not. Die P freight, how do I, I am not too troublesome, exhausting, too much. Where such a weekend, as today is still expandable. We have only: Today, a birthday party with 9 Girls under the slogan “let’s Cook together”celebrated, Enable home and kitchen in original condition, shopping for tomorrow Brunch, now Porgy&Bess, tomorrow as already mentioned brunch and our daughter needs to further Party.
Basically, we would still be able to go biscuit baking and traditional rowing club's Christmas party, also immer noch Room for Opportunities!

No it does not stress me the second, would say, that I and my ass.

#22: strong

This week I was at an information evening at my daughter's school, as they begin in January with a project, that under the title “Self-confidence – Self strengths” was presented. In fact, we got a 1 1/2 Frontalvortrag, which dealt with the issue of child abuse and family violence. Not only that it was produced very oppressive, it was clear, that no question was desired by the parents, but rather the underlying message was conveyed: we find something out, if there is something there.

To my question, where the order come the, came the answer, the teacher, that the children deal openly with strangers, they tell too much of yourself. But where is the limit? I do not want it, that my child is afraid of strangers and your openness buries. Is not that, what we always criticize, that we are Austrians less open, and then shall these things be also trained in the school?!

And of course, we can start with the fear machine and begin to fear the evil man schwazren, only fact is, that attacks on children held a majority in the family and acquaintances. It is an important issue, that belongs sensitized, but please without Stasi methods.