I read somewhere once, that one can be happy about, if your child “otherwise” is, and I know how many times you heard, I can be happy about it, that the child his “Austicker” in its entire force “just” I give my.

Logically seen and thought rationally, can I register these statements naturally agree, and yet I am just now even more than just the pure mind. Then I'm just sad and angry at the same, feel hopeless and see back only the steps and not the, what we have already achieved. And I say we deliberately, Of course, it is the child, that learns and strives and struggles through our social norms. But there we are parents, that accompany it, give him this unconditional love, so child can be just child.

This force applied, To take the next step again, to consider new steps or, because it is like that, that laws need not be linear. Yesterday as was a step back and the only, because my Junior refused to be cut nails. Sunday is always a bad moment and we know, but because it is the first time went to a scout camp, he did not feel before this unpleasant feeling of short nails. Thus, everything was different, otherwise in its processes, otherwise in its frame.

Many counselors find, that it does not make sense, to discuss the escalating again. That's true in our case definitely not. It's not even about, warm something or to push blame, but rather to find logical conclusions, to learn from these, namely on both sides.