Because I was only recently the subject feminism, I noticed, how far we are partially removed as a parent thereof. I've always said my two children, that they both may be the same and a lot of good can, if you want to. That it does not matter, whether they have a penis, no penis, have long or short hair, rosa, blue or glittering love. And yet I keep coming back to the distress drawers to open. Be there to explain to my dear daughter, that they should not let unterbuttern, that they can, for example, also play football and to. It was not even the case, have that on hard court at school the boys of the other classes they expelled or excluded. Even at the summer festival on a motivated father the girl (with my girl) put off, yes because it now comes to a game. Since I neither in this round then a future Ronaldo, Messi or even pad saw, not opened up it me quite, why this game was so much more important, as the common fun at a summer festival. But since my parents have taught me good manners, I have refrained from further discussion. Except for a few comments, Comments and subtle nuances I was very grown up.
Even my son, I declare always, that girls of all might as well, wie er. In kindergarten, there was namely a girl band and boy band and a, the boys have caught the girl and then clung to fantasy prisons. At the beginning it was only in the boys band, because girls are more stupid. My permanent defenses, that girls and super strong, great and ever and are more likely to be the fact, that Emily is a sturdy pretty girl had his attention, led him to change later in the girl band, to protect them. Where do these stereotypes come? Emily had certainly not be protected and would not probably even.

My son makes, if he does not like someone, no difference in his demeanor of the person against. The or which can then be treated ever gross, but it's still a problem. Because boys are allowed to knock each other, but girls and boys, since it is more difficult. And of course explains to his children, that one should hurt anyone in general, is or whatever. Even if the other has begun. 6year are as yet somewhat resistant to such objections. And my 12 year old does not manage to turn around and go, but then scandalizes, halt verbal, but that is better? Not even I – see above – can always be on top of things. This requires common sense and a distance. Therefore, it is also important to me, that understand my children, that there are differences between the sexes, as there are differences between us humans are, and to which we must take into consideration.