My grandmother had a stroke two years ago. At the age of about 80 Years, she said at the time to have to burn off the field at the end of the summer still by hand. Until then, it is still day ago 6 Tomorrow got up clock and tried to order the court as much as possible alone. This Weekend, because were celebrating Orthodox Easter, I visited them again. And it is depressing to see, as a former agile woman, with nearly 80 until 4 Clock danced in the morning, now has trouble sitting up or. it is not possible without their help. There are good days and bad. On good days, she recognizes the people around them, so one was on Saturday. She was happy to see the family, has held my hand and tried their grandchildren – as well as earlier – to tease. Earlier and that is just 3 Years ago, is she crawled around on the floor with her one year old great-grandson, It is in view of this woman lying in bed, as a glance at an old picture. Good days are good for all, because one is glad, to spend time with her, the nurse has to do less, the family is less work and the collected memory is a positive, one hopes for the person. And then there are bad days, that were the next 2 Days, where my grandmother was very tired and confused. You make us all concerned, at least my grandmother, because they remain unaware of it. A body that is indeed weak, a spirit, is no longer functioning as, as he has done it once and still it is not possible for her to die. On good days, where the memory function, it is their wish, they did not tell my mother, but the body it is not yet possible to. Even these few days, I see them, make them happy and sad and it shows, that life in old age can be anything but simple. Solutions but we have still not found in our society for. My grandmother has the good fortune to be cared for at home, because when I think of her hospital stay, we mean the 21. To be arrived century, and are fortunate about the miserable conditions in our hospitals, on the Balkans is brought as members of not only the food and the sleeping robe, one has to take care of the medical treatment and having to worry about, that overnight food or drugs are not stolen again. That is why attempts were made, that a 24 Hours care is found. And the family – also in the Balkans – can not take care. So external help must be sought and funded primarily one.